The Touch Refuge... a safe place for the body, spirit and mind to be touched back to wholeness
Greetings and warm wishes,

My name is Jolee and I am delighted to invite you to celebrate with me the joy and healing power of gentle, focused touching and teaching.

By way of history, my journey to this lovely place began in 2005 as a way to become more attuned to the physical world I often ignored with my mind so captivated by the "heady stuff " that was a part of my longstanding consulting career. What started as a personal experiment soon blossomed into a wonderful world of healing, enrichment, intimacy, and fulfillment.

Having learned much and refined both my skills and intuition, I now find myself exploring and expanding what's possible when a person's physical, mental, spiritual and emotional worlds are cared for by a committed and caring surrogate.

Being a surrogate is a precious gift that I hold sacred. It's an honor, not a job.  

As a surrogate, I temporarily fill a role that is typically filled by another.  My goals is to create an authentic experience that completes "what's missing".  I do this through various forms of sacred touch, with an intention to heal what's broken, refresh weariness, restore a sense of completeness, and inspire what's possible.

I also help both women and men clarify the barriers that prevent them from knowing the intimacy they seek in their lives and then find ways to overcome them.

When not involved in surrogate engagements and intimacy enrichment, I am a happily single mom, business consultant, writer of poetry and books, and life coach. I am a committed student of life, love, self actualization (forgive the 70's term) and living in the moment.

Yoga helps me stay grounded and breathe when I have too many places spinning (yeah, that would be most the time). My boxing workouts add a little yang to my yoga yin. Together, both help me stay young, fit and strong.


Thank you for your interest in learning about me. I looking forward to making you needs the focus of my ONE intention.


Warmest Regards,


Jolee