Where are you located?
My discreet and welcoming incall location is in Northern Oakland County, Michigan. My space is private, peaceful, quiet and comfortable. I have made every accommodation to ensure your time with me will be complimented by the environment I have created.
I am also in the process of creating a similar space near Toledo, Ohio.
At times I work from other locations while traveling. You can expect the same attention to detail demonstrated in my travel location. I select upscale hotels and bring the comforts of my sanctuary along.
Holy cow, Jolee, why are your donations so high?
If I may, a comparison for illustrative purposes. Anyone who has driven an Audi R8 convertible does not wonder why it costs more than, say, a Nissan Versa (not to slam the Versa, just pointing out that with a $10,000 base price its pretty darn affordable!). From the soft, premium leather seats, to the the details in the sleek and robust dashboard, to smooth ride and torched up engine, its a statement in itself. Comparing those two cars to each other is like comparing apples to, well, bananas.
Of course, both cars will get you to your destination. For some the extra bells and whistles are simply not worth the extra investment; getting to the destination is good enough. But for those looking for a car that provides a compelling experience, the Audi S8 convertible wins the race (pun intended).
I understand that the experiences I create do not add up to "value" for some, perhaps even many. The dozen of nuances and extra touches I employ are often not appreciated by those who are satisfied with a decent "happy ending" massage. I don't provide a "decent" experience; I provide a compelling experience for those looking for more than common fare.
Said another way, if tipping your toe into the commodity pool of bargain priced providers suits your fancy, there is really no reason in the world for you to come knocking on my door. This is not to suggest that those lovely ladies don't offer a wonderful service; I trust they do. Rather, its to point out that the experience they offer is very far away from the one that I offer.
My experience either speaks to you, or not. To each his own, I always say.
Why does your "Sacred Touch Experience" cost as much as many FS experiences readily available?
I guess I don't care much about "the commodity market". I care about finding ways to sate cravings that seem insatiable.
Beyond value perception, there are also practical reasons why my donations may be as high as those requested by budget-friendly FS providers. These are the hidden "costs" involved in providing a world-class experience in the perfect space to experience it.
Practically speaking, it takes far more energy and expense to deliver a Sacred Touch Experience than it does to deliver most FS experiences (certainly all budget-friendly experiences available for the same donations what I request). Some things you may have not thought of:
~ I thoroughly check references, just like FS providers do
~ It takes at least 45 minutes to prepare and clean up after every
appointment, regardless of whether it lasts an hour or three
~ My supplies cost three times as much as those needed for FS
~ I spend three times as much time doing laundry
~ It requires more time between appointment to ensure I am
mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically refreshed
~ Multi-hour appointments, our greatest leverage tool, are far fewer
~ Wear and tear on my body is far greater
Those, of course, are the practical reasons; again, they are not the rationale for value. Only you can determine whether an experience is worth a given cost. I trust that you will make the decision that is right for you.
Do you share Sacred Touch with women as well as men?
I enjoy sharing my talents with anyone who can benefit from them.
Do you use oils as a part of your Sacred Touch experience?
Most likely oils are necessary to get glide through the long. flowing strokes which will make up much of your experience. At times, other products will be used for specific purposes and for certain purposes no products are used.
I use high quality, unscented oils and some mildly scented aroma therapy face and hand creams (if you prefer no scent at all I can, of course, accommodate you). Please let me know immediately if you have any allergies, sensitivities or special needs.
Do you have a shower available?
Yes, indeed. In fact, you will be asked to shower before we begin your Sacred Touch experience and you are welcome to shower again before you leave. You will find everything you need to freshen up (toiletries, hair dryer, combs, etc.).
I know many providers include time spend on showering or getting ready as a part of the time a client has scheduled. To ensure you are not rushed I schedule a minimum of 60 minutes between appointments; your "freshening up" time is never a part of our scheduled time together.
Do you do deep tissue work?
No, I do not do deep tissue work, primarily because I am not a CMT, nor am I formally trained in massage, I don't offer "massage". For our mutual safety, I only work in areas where I am confident I can assure no harm will come to either of us. More importantly, I am a believer in focusing on one's talents, and my talents are in offering sensual, holistic, compelling feminine touch.
Do you use draping during your appointments?
I believe that the function of draping is to create comfort for the person I am engaging. Draping is always available and I encourage its use if it makes you feel more comfortable. If you find it distracting or cumbersome, then you are welcome to not use it. What's important is that you do what is necessary for YOU to feel completely relaxed and open to receiving the experience you seek.
What other types of services beyond "Sacred Touch" do you offer?
I also help both women and men clarify the barriers that prevent them from knowing the intimacy they seek in their lives and then find ways to overcome them. Many of my clients struggle with issues that hinder their ability to foster and experience the level of intimacy and sexual satisfaction they long for, such as:
- Dealing with a detached partner
- Finding and providing physical satisfaction in the face of common "equipment malfunctions"
- Managing obscene levels of stress
- Insecurity, anxiety or confidence problems
- Lack of ability to experience intimacy
I have successfully handled each of these issues with compassion, finesse, and the heart of an angel. I trust that the same could be true for whatever it is that troubles you.
What does the client wear during a Sacred Touch experience?
As described earlier, Sacred Touch involves a series of long strokes that span from head to toe and back again many times. These strokes are better accomplished and more effective when there is no barrier to interrupt the flow. For this reason, I gently suggest my clients use draping to address their privacy needs rather than leaving undergarments on. You are always welcome to choose otherwise, however I want to be clear that it may impact the quality of your experience.
What forms of payment do you accept?
I primarily work with cash, however there are other options I will accept under certain circumstances. These do not include credit cards or personal checks. Please inquire if you have special circumstances you would like to discuss.
Do you include a "happy ending" with your Sacred Touch experience?
Oh how I hate this question as it presumes that a perceived "end game" makes the experience of Sacred Touch worthwhile. This goes against everything I believe in. My promise to you is that at the end of your experience with me, a "happy ending" will be a near meaningless concept. I know its hard to believe, but your satisfaction is guaranteed, so you have nothing to lose. Why not have a little faith and put your worries about "happy endings" aside.
Here's the bottom line: if you are a respectful and discerning lady or gentleman looking for a magical experience, you will not find a comparable experience - period. If, however, you are pursuing Sacred Touch solely as a means to get sexual pleasure, I gently suggest you find another provider who will be better suited to your needs and probably less expensive.
What are your "credentials"?
I have spent most of my adult life in the role of performance coach, helping others get better at what they do. Since helping others can only happen to those who have first helped themselves, I have invested countless of hours in a process of self-growth and actualization, exploring the dynamics of personality, sexuality, authenticity and intimacy as they relate to my world. I have attended dozens of professional training programs in a variety of related areas, many of which I also became certified to facilitate.
Said another way, I have been a life-long learner and teacher. The gifts that allow me to excel at this work are the result of my haunting intuition, the talents I have
fostered since childhood, and the knowledge and life experiences that I have pursued as a part of my journey. I am a voluptuary by DNA, surrogate by choice, and passionate pursuer of possibility and abundance by spiritual calling.
How do I know what you advertise is true?
My "past friends" include professional athletes as well as and dozens of others who have received professional massages in the best
salons in the world. Though comparing massage to Sacred Touch is not a perfect parallel, time and again they tell me they have yet to find
an experience as unique and captivating as mine.
You can check out some of their specific
feedback using the "Review" tab. Their comments speak for my
talents in lieu of formal training. They also speak to my passion for
touch and healing.
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